Recieve aknowledgement for what I achieve

Nothing I do is right in anyones eyes but my own. I am sick of it. I am not in debt, I am independant, I am as happy as I can be, and I have all that anyone could ask for. Except… My mother hates me because I do not need her. I thought that was the job description. Raise them and let them go and hope you did well enough so that you can enjoy your empty nest. Not this dysfunctional family. My brother gets all the praise, love, support and understanding only because he leans on his parents constantly. Can somebody in this family tell me that I have done well? I have my own business, I own a house with no payments, I have 4 kids, my cars are paid for, and I have a college degree. Just because I did this by myself and never asked them for anything, I am scum? Someone please explain this to me!