Love without fear

My hairdresser made a simple observation the other day. She noticed people are so afraid of what could go wrong in a relationship that they never stop to think about what could go right.

Her statement helped me realize we often become what we focus on. I’m working on changing my perspective and letting myself imagine just how good life could be with this guy. This could be the best relationship of my life!

I am finding that the less I fear, the more capacity I have to love. I didn’t expect this goal’s words ‘loving’ and ‘fearlessly’ to be so connected. I’m not sure how I can measure success on a goal like this other than day to day, but it’s worthwhile trying.