find a hairstyle my hair likes as much as I do

Hearing about how much work people actually go through to fix their hair, I realized that it wasn’t that I was having a hard time with my hair, rather I didn’t appreciatge how easy mine actually was. I have hair that no matter how I cut it isn’t horrible, it’s soft and shiney, has a slight wave that’s easy to turn into curls but just as easily be straightened as well. I like keeping it black, that color really grew on me more than I thought it would (makes me look tough, LOL). It’s never going to have a hairstyle that is just wash and go, but I’m learning that almost nobody has that (and bald isn’t an option for me right now). I’ll just love it and leave it and worry about more important things!

That it does not involve bangs/fringe.

That I probably can’t do it at home all by myself.

That hair color first would probably help.

It will take me a year to grow out what I mess up on, so I need to be a little more cautious next time!

Quite by accident, my hair is black with reddish brown streaks. Not at all what I wanted, but after trying to get “dark brown” on three different occasions, I’ve made peace with my hair and have learned to love the color it chose to retain with the at-home dye!