monkiegrrrl in Baton Rouge is doing 43 things including…

Allow myself to only be treated well by the people I choose to have friendships and relationships with. If they do not, I need to find the courage to move on without them.

37 cheers |

monkiegrrrl has written 3 entries about this goal

Score!!!  — 7 months ago

This is getting easier and easier to do.

Dec 01, 02:45PM PST 1 cheer | 0 comments

Time to move on  — 3 years ago

This relationship I’m in isn’t doing it for me. I know what I want and need in a relationship and this isn’t it. I’m doing my part, but he sure isn’t doing his.

Sunday I got my things from his place. Last night I hung out with him but didn’t stay over. There’s nothing cryptic about me saying “I think I show you that I like you, what’s so hard about you showing me that you like me?” Nothing is wrong with taking it slow, but there’s a difference between taking it slow and blunting your emotions, holding back and doing nothing.

Being single is better than being in a relationship that makes you sad.

Jun 01, 2005, 09:00AM PDT 3 cheers | 9 comments

AMEN to that  — 3 years ago

I allow people to use me as a doormat way too often – I need to learn to apply the Golden Rule to MYSELF as well as others. Why I hang on to “friends” who unapologetically blow me off, never make an effort to show me that they care about me or otherwise take the initiative to do anything to contribute to the relationship, I just don’t know. Being forgiving is a beautiful thing, but there are limits to how forgiving one should be.

Sometimes I let the weeds in my garden overshadow the flowers, which is not good.

Jan 31, 2005, 11:20AM PST | 3 comments

monkiegrrrl has gotten 37 cheers on this goal.

 

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Learn a third language Princess K is Back Again...again! wants to Stop comparing myself to other people get another tattoo buy a bike learn to sew Learn to surf watch all CSI episodes stop living from paycheck to paycheck learn how to use photoshop Sell stuff on ebay have a flat stomach customize my car become a runner be able to fake an Irish accent juicebox88 wants to identify 100 things that make me happy (besides money) watch lost season 3 until the fall finalé Hug Patrick Stump for a really long time talk less, listen more sail rock climb Let things go track my menstrual cycle be a better employee tahti wants to take more pictures...better pictures meditate more get my bac! Spend at least 15 minutes a day doing something on this list do my homework