onebaygirl in United States is doing 17 things including…

Stop being so hard on myself

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onebaygirl has written 3 entries about this goal

I've been doing so much better with this, 22 months ago

but I still have a long way to go. I know my fears and uncertainties have a lot to do with this. As much as I tell my self that by doing the best I can is enough, I still don’t believe it in every situation to the extent that I can complete this goal. It’s a tough balancing act.



As a perfectionist this is hard to grasp, 2 years ago

but for the undesired outcomes of the past I need to accept my margin of error as a human and learn from it to create desired outcomes for the present and future.



I don't have to be perfect every time 2 years ago

I have to stop beating myself up every time things don’t go as planned, or when sometimes I just need a break. I guess I’m just afraid of falling into bad habits, lowering my standards or quitting all together. As long as I keep trying, I need to realize that sometimes I need rest, or that sometimes things don’t go as planned and I just need to try again.



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