Let things go

I made an entry on this one about a friend who wasn’t being a good friend. I found out some information tonight about her husband and what she knew about her husband that makes it impossible for me to continue to be her friend, even if she started to be a better friend. I’m going to be letting this friendship go.

don’t know if it’ll be step toward letting them go but I guess I have to figure out what I’m holding on to.

Right now the thing that is really bugging me is a friend of mine. This friend, I’ve always been very supportive of her and things that have been going on in her life. She’s getting ready to have her first baby and a another friend and I threw her a baby shower. I got a thank you card and everything…but the thing that is bugging me is that she has basically cut off all of her friends…doesn’t talk to any of us anymore hardly and when she does it is all about her. In fact, it’s been all about her for well over a year now (since she got engaged). The reason this is bugging me is that she didn’t even send a card or anything after I had my 2nd son. And since she got engaged she’s only ever called to talk when SHE needs to talk about something…

So…I need to decide if I should just let this go and decide that our friendship is going to be on another level or just let our friendship go altogether since she hasn’t been a very good friend for quite some time.