meet a guy whom I have fun with and who has fun with me

I’m debating changing this goal to “meet a guy WHOM I have fun with and who has fun with me,” but maybe it’s that sort of nitpicking that’s keeping me from this kind of relationship. =P

Of course they’re all looking to meet a guy too. :P Figures.

I’m not giving up though!

with this goal and with all the “fall in love” goals that are all over this site is that it’s not something you can really set as a goal and then make happen. It’s not like losing weight or something, where you can pretty much decide “Okay, I’m definitely going to do this” and then take steps to make it happen. And it’s not on the other end of the spectrum either, meaning things like “be named the sexiest person on the planet by unanimous vote,” meaning things that you know are never going to happen but are fun to think about. Nope, this is right in the middle, something I really want to happen and something that I have almost no way of influencing. There are plenty of people I know who are fun (though I have no clue if they really have fun with me) but there’s the underlying thing to this, which is that said guy would actually like me too (romantically, hopefully it’s not jinxing my already pathetic social life to mention the word!) and actually live near me and we would have time to spend together and he would WANT to spend it with me. So. Not my favorite goal, I guess is the point of this entry, hehe.

that’s all anyone really needs anyway, right?