adopt a child

I want to adopt in addition to having kids with my husband. In addition to the feeling that it’s my place or calling or whatever I want to adopt to ensure all of my children get the blessings of brothers and sisters. So far there are only boys in the family. I firmly belive that everyone should have a big brother and or a sister younger or older. The other day I was thinking I want to adopt first. I was having a conversation with my adopted child in my head and I want to be able to tell him WE chose him to be in our family. Any and all other natural births will be chosen for us and we will be more or less stuck with what we get but our adopted son came first and we chose the right one.