stop living in the past

I was good friends with a girl in high school. We graduated in 2004 and stayed friends but weren’t as close because we were busy with work, school, etc. The last year or so it seems like she only called me when she needed something, like if she was upset and needed someone to talk to. I’d hang out with her and probably wouldn’t again for about a month. That really started to bother me but I didn’t say anything. I haven’t talked to her since March 12th (Yes, I remember the date because we were talking about something). March 12th was a Thursday and SHE asked if I wanted to hang out on Sunday. I never did hear from her and this is almost two months later. I’ve just been waiting for her to call or email me and for me to tell her to stop using me…but that hasn’t happened. My fiance saw her one night and asked why she hasn’t been to our house lately. My birthday was a little over a week ago and ever since we’ve been friends, she always called me at 12:00a.m. to wish me a happy birthday. This year she didn’t. SHE DIDN’T EVEN WRITE ON MY FACEBOOK WALL. Come on, EVERYONE wishes you a happy birthday on your Facebook wall. So, yeah, I guess we’re done being “friends”...This really bothered me before because I’m so quiet and it’s hard for me to make friends….but now, I’m so tired of being used…and now ignored…I’m DONE!