I have come to realise that its easier to be happy when you are not around people who are not happy with you.
I am concentrating on being happy and finding things I like. I look for people I like or find positives in the people around me. I dont let the things that are hurtful by others hold any importance. I look to love people and be nice or not be with/ near the negatives.
I remind myself when people say I am not acting like me (the way they think I should, that I am more like me now than the me they expect. I am happier.
It helps to be with people who are supportive of you, but if you cannot find those type of people just do the good and nice and interesting things the positive things that make you feel good, things that dont hurt other people. Have fun. Smile. It all bounces back on you better.
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I had contact with someone interesting who made me feel more interesting. There was a promise in life. Why do we feel much better if someone else may value us? Regardless I found part of me alive that I had stuffed in a bundle and put away. Its nice to have hope.
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