have good friends

Well, one of my friends blew me off about a year ago without the slightest hint as to why. I finally found out. She sent me an email explaining that she was getting tired of me not wanting to go out and drink/party/ect. She was one of my best friends…but couldn’t accept me minus the “good times”.
My other good friend and roommate explained to me that she didn’t ask me to do anything anymore because where she goes is “high end and upscale and she knew that I couldn’t afford it”. She also said that just hanging out wasn’t good/fun/ect enough. Apparently she and her friends are called the “glamour girls”. Good God just roundhouse kick me in the face. Then shoot me in the shins. People blow my mind everyday.

I have learned that it is very hard to find good friends. I have also come to grips with the fact that just because I believe in treating people how I want to be treated, it does NOT mean that they have the same mindset. ::sigh::