“It isn’t what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about. ”
– Dale Carnegie
It is so easy to lose sight of my goals and passions when I meet someone new. In the long run this is futile since partly he has fallen in love with those things that I bring into the relationship, so to stop doing them just to be with him, even though he wants me to spend all of my free time with him, it is better to continue on as I have before I met him and enjoy him immensely when I see him. I want to get to know him better, and he to get to know me better. A choice, we can learn about each other by rushing and being together constantly or we can take our time, get to know the good and the bad, allow that love to inspire to continue to improve .. and see what happens :)
3/28/05
as you spend more time with a new person that you are into and he is into you, it changes you.. The trick is to embrace the changes, but not to forget who you are. Keep an open mind to where the changes will take you, but hang on to what you know.
