Fall in love for real

The guy I had been dating… I got up the courage to talk to him about the lack of “Zsa-zsa-zsu” a few weeks back. Actually, I did most of the talking; I said that I couldn’t “date” someone who was so afraid to make any type of committment – no matter how small. He just replied, “OK”.

I finally resigned myself to non-dating. Giving up for a while. Then, one day, I was at the library chatting online, and BAM – a guy. Turns out he is employed, LEGAL (for a change), kind, fun, and seemingly “normal”. I am falling….

I have been dating a guy for 4 months now. It feels like we are just quiet, platonic friends. We don’t talk. We don’t really even hang out. How do you find the FIREWORKS!!! I don’t want to settle, but right now, I feel that being alone would be dangerous for me – I am in a fragile state. Help…..