be assertive

I’m going to stay with 43things. Time I did something to please me for a change, instead of always wanting to please others.

whether 43T is the ideal therapy tool for me or not. Assertiveness test number one. I give myself two days to decide. 12/01/2007 will be the day of reckoning.

It might seem contradictory that I should have chosen this goal to be the first one to challenge myself on, especially when considering my top previous #1, let go and let God. The only way I can explain this is that I believe God is speaking to me through friends in my non-virtual life and recently here on 43T, and that there’s something to be said for team-work. I can’t expect Him to do everything for me!

Thanks for recommending this site, PRIL79. I intend to do the program to improve my self-esteem.

Good or bad; I should NOT allow myself to be so easily influenced. Period. ^{Make up your own mind, girl!}