How often do we fall into this horrible trap of judging.
We judge everything: Things, people, ourselves even the weather. Within our own limitations we judge the rest of the world. We compare things that should not be compared.We judge incidents according the way WE see it, oftenly disregarding most of the variables that make up the incident due to our limitations to persive & comprehend them.
And so, we risk becoming “small people” meaning if something comes across our way and we rush to label it as: Useless, ugly, stupid, insignificant, good for me, etc. we might be missing the whole-lot-bigger-picture of its existence, and that might turn to be an enormeous miss.
I know that once I’ve decided to become less judgmental the real work begins.Some of us are more judgmental than others. I believe it has to do (like lots of other things) with the way we were educated as kids.One thing I can tell you, it is well worth the effort.It allows more space for things & experiences to settle in (most of which were previously easily discarded).
I started to see people in a whole different light and this newly gained ability enabled some interesting interactions.
Remember: Being less judgemental is a constant battle between the old and known that comfortably lays inside each one of us, and the new that wants so much to emerge.
