I’m getting pretty good at this. The fact that I’m madly in love with her helps.
1. Keep things exciting by finding ways to surprise her
2. Read a few chapters from “Guide to Getting it On,” “The Whole Lesbian Sex Book,” and “The Joy of Sex” for ideas
3. Go to The Velvet Box again for something exciting
ago I gave my wife her first orgasm. I bought her a vibrator from Condom Sense and talked her into using it. She’d never used one before, so it was a revelation. Her rabbit has been a part of our sex life since then, to her great satisfaction. I haven’t made her come without a vibrator though.
This is my current goal.
but I’m much better at than I was three years ago.