have more sex

My poor sweetie is sick. She’s headachy, her tummy hurts, and she just generally feeling awful and wants to be left alone.

I’m posting about this here, because guess what I’d rather be doing right now??

If it weren’t for bad timing… :-(

Biggest problem in achieving this goal is what time it might happen. There are certain times when I’m not interested, and others when everything’s looking good, and they have no relation to anything else on my calendar. Right now, for example, I’m here sitting at my desk at work and ready to go...and of course it ain’t happening.

This is not going to work if I keep having all these demands on my time. Can’t I just stay at home and get checks sent to me while I just concentrate on having sex?

...and I think I’ll just stop talking now. :-)

And this must be the one step back. sigh

I am learning that much of the “formula” for sex isn’t desire, or appetite, or attractiveness, or personality…it’s availability.

...and that’s all I’ll say right now. :-)

We have this habit of being ready for it at the precise moments when the other isn’t. I was ready to jump all night long while she was asleep…this morning I felt like a corpse and needed intravenous coffee when suddenly, guess who’s ready? You gotta be kidding.

One of us needs a new internal clock…

She’s had a cold for the past week, and hasn’t felt like it at all…but that didn’t stop her before that from waking me up in a very enjoyable fashion one morning… }:-)

I’ve been married for fifteen years now, and thanks to my absolutely insane schedule (and the fact that my wife and I are on different schedules, as to when we’re most…interested), I find that we don’t have the time for it as often as we used to. Well, no more. If I have to schedule it on the calendar, it’s gonna get scheduled!