secretsmile in London is doing 15 things including…

Be a better friend

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dealing with friends 3 years ago

I chose this target to remember to keep in contact with old friends to put more effort into new ones and to be there for current ones.
I am too insecure in this arena. I always think every time I leave the room they start talking about me. Girls can be bitchy (this is why I like guy friends better).
But I know what I should do is trust my friends to stand up for me in such catty situations and not worry that people are poisoning them against me.
If they are silly enough to believe whatever is being said they obviously aren’t good friends to begin with.

I am the talker in all my friendships but I find I listen well too. Sometimes they are quiet shocked when I mention something from previous conversations because they assume I wasn’t listening.

When I first meet people I am better at one to one rather than the group thing



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