Curt Rosengren, The Occupational Adventure (sm), writes about Develop a 5 to 1 habit
”...an endless litany of reasons why I can’t. It seems to be wired into us to look for obstacles and declare them reality.”
“One of the ways to change that perspective is to develop a 5 to 1 habit. For every obstacle you recognize, commit to writing down five ideas for getting around that obstacle.”
I tend to not put myself in places where I might meet a soulmate, because most of the time I see too many obstacles. I guess a prerequisite for the goal of find my soulmate is to be more deligent in getting around my obstacles.
