selmerlin in London is doing 34 things including…

ask for help when i need it, and accept help when it's offered

22 cheers

 

selmerlin has written 3 entries about this goal

Ha! 19 months ago

Yeah right – my problem is I have a tendency to get contrary. So if rebuffed I can turn into my own worst enemy and do it all myself. However can’t see that as all wrong – but intellectualy know not healthy

May 06, 2008, 02:16PM PDT | 0 comments


Easier said than done 2 years ago

HOwever when someone very importnat to me offered to help I did have a brief flash to this goal and thought – yes. So lesson is ‘verbalising’ does help to change behaviour. This required a lot of bravery from me – daft tho it sounds.

Apr 13, 2007, 02:51AM PDT | 1 cheer | 1 comment


This week 2 years ago

Has been really tough and I have not wanted to ring anyone up to share as I felt it would be dumping on them and also don’t usually ask for help. However 2 people today have asked why I did not call them and I maybe just need to loosen up a bit and unbutton. It’s not a bad thing not to be able to do everything all the time and sometimes I need support.

Jan 25, 2007, 02:25PM PST | 1 cheer | 0 comments


selmerlin has gotten 22 cheers on this goal.

 

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