sicktotheheart in The Clouds is doing 9 things including…

be the right person instead of trying to find the right person

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sicktotheheart has written 3 entries about this goal

I am considering what I want in a person 15 months ago

and realizing the changes I need to make in order to attract that sort of person. I will admit that I can be quite lazy, and this will require effort.
My first goal is essentially to be more altruistic, although that is a vague way of putting it. So i will have to limit the time for my selfish pursuits, and that is hard when you work full-time….in your off hours you really just want to vegetate :X

Aug 28, 2008, 10:42PM PDT | 1 cheer | 2 comments


I don't know... 19 months ago

Sometimes I feel like my flaws are not catastrophic…..I don’t have to be perfect to deserve someone….no one else is perfect, so why do I have to be?

May 09, 2008, 11:19PM PDT | 1 cheer | 0 comments


I know that 2 years ago

I need a better self-esteem, not vanity, but a real respect for myself as a person. I have to like myself & not be shocked when others do. I have to stop all this internal negative dialogue & give myself a break.

I need to be less selfish. I think about people, but I don’t act on those thoughts & do things to show them I care.

I also need to be less depressed & more motivated. I find it easy to slip into my old ways of isolating myself socially.

Dec 02, 2007, 04:45PM PST | 3 cheers | 2 comments


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