Sandi in Southern California is doing 43 things including…

learn to trust

74 cheers

 

Sandi has written 2 entries about this goal

Holidays ... 16 months ago

... and relatives always cause my trust issues to surface.

Jul 09, 2008, 05:21PM PDT | 1 cheer | 0 comments


In the past... 2 years ago

...I expected people to act a certain way and had trust issues when they acted differently. I am surrounded by people with strong personalities and it felt like they took more than they gave without noticing or caring that the relationship wasn’t balanced. The more I gave, the more they expected. My reaction to this was to be on guard, less trusting and started avoiding them whenever possible.

It was unrealistic for me to want others to change, so I needed to change how I was responding to the situation. By setting more boundaries, I no longer feel like they are taking advantage of me and finally starting to trust people a little more.

Jun 14, 2007, 11:18AM PDT | 9 cheers | 1 comment


Sandi has gotten 74 cheers on this goal.

 

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