jan in Rotterdam is doing 35 things including…

never apologize for being me

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who is me - loyalty conflicts 3 years ago

There are two difficulties in here….

one is the obvious question “who am i anyway? ” what do i want, what do i like – really really like? some things are obvious. I won’t tell lies about wanting sex. But more subtile things get more difficult. When I am on this planet to love God and love others – what is my best role in that? What is it that I want with my money – my kids – my wife – my work?

Second – when decisions boil down to be mutual or influencing other – i have a strong tendency to avoid conflict. And sometimes others expect it even – to be loyal to their opinion. Then things get blurred. I want green, but if you like red, I want no conflict nor you to be unhappy – and SO i want red?

ha ha i’m coulorblind – stupid example!

So what are my colours?

cyndi lauper – thnx a lot for your beautifull song;

true colours.

I have a very dear friend that has the ability to “see” “colours” of people – their shakra/aura/mood/... and says i’m a colour-blender.



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