My biggest problem lately seems to be with my male “friends”. Ever since I broke up with my last boyfriend, those “friends” seem to want to hang out with the intention of something more. Why is it that they assume I’d be interested in the first place?? I’m honestly not in a situation where I’m leading them on, so where does this even come from?
Now I’m seeing someone else, and they get pissed if I say no to them since I have plans with him. It’s getting frustrating trying to maintain these friendships without confusing things between that messy line of friendship and something more…for now, my goal is to say no to them unless I absolutely am sure that we will hang out, and doing something that will keep me from giving them the wrong idea. When did “friendships” get so complicated?