stop being a people pleaser

“My Life As A Doormat”...it was very good! I saw so much of myself in the main character. A question she asked herself towards the end of the book is good “food-for-thought”...
“Am I a perfectly likeable human being even when I don’t fulfill people’s expectations?” The answer is YES, and this is such a good lesson!

that was hard to make, but I felt I made the right one with God’s help! But, I still didn’t have peace…so I prayed to God for wisdom…that if it was the right decision, why didn’t I feel comfortable with it? Then, it came to my mind…”It’s your people-pleasing that’s making you uncomfortable with the decision!” Wow…that is what it is! That made sense, and I have felt more at peace since!

I DO NOT WANT TO BE A PEOPLE-PLEASER!

to read! Prayed to God to please help me find a good book… entertaining, as well as a book that I could learn something from! He has done this for me so many times…He has done it again! Went into the Christian Bookstore, browsed the fiction aisle for a bit, a book caught my eye, read the first chapter, went and bought it…it’s going to be good! “My Life As A Doormat” by Rene Gutteridge.

for me to know the difference between whether something is really my responsibility or if I am people-pleasing!

This so irritates me about myself! And makes me sad! “What about ME?” I ask myself.