be a nicer person

It has been amazing. It’s as if ever since I put this goal on this site, to be a nicer person, I have been becoming nicer. Shy old me is even speaking to more people, wow. Thanks you all.
This has been one of the greatest goals.

I really want to be a nicer person. Partially, though because of bad karma. I am scared that what I give I will get back. And I have been told that I have been selfish. I don’t share myself with many people. To my defense, I am not used to sharing myself. It may be a learned skill. I do not know where to draw appropriate boundaries and for that reason, I believe, I keep to myself. But I got felt totally rejected tonight, and it made me realize things. I am nervous, however, that I cannot live up to the goal of being nicer. Or that it will be too much work. But, life, I believe, is showing me that it is important! Thank you all for sharing your comments about being a nicer person. And if anyone wants to write me a comment, please do. I want to feel heard.