If your friend buys a new outfit and you think it looks terrible. What do you say whilst remaining positive??
steveisalive has written 5 entries about this goal
I see it as a battle between positive and negative.
A battle between people who try to be positive and people who enjoy being negative. It’s also an internal battle between our positive and negative sides.
I have a feeling that by fighting the external battle and helping others to be positive, you win the internal one and become more positive yourself!
Actually going pretty well considering the gloom which normally accompanies returning to work in January!
A couple of negative thoughts but I was ready for them and quickly thought of something happy. It feels a bit fake like I’m just pretending to be positive and ignoring the negative reality but I’m going to keep going!
How many times has something happened which upset you and you read a whole load of negative stuff into it and that made you react in a negative way which just made the whole thing even worse? Later on you found out that you’ld totally overacted or even misread the situation or jumped to a negative conclusion.
Whenever something happens – you have a choice to either react negatively or react positively and it really is a choice even if naturally we tend to the negative. So next time take a deep breath and force yourself to smile and be positive.