stop caring about what others think

Have you ever gone out to a club or party and been afraid or intimidated to go out and dance on the dancefloor? What would your willingness and eagerness depend on? The number of people crowding the floor or empty spaces here and there? That really cute guy standing a few feet away talking with his friends… Those girls dancing it up in the middle who are so obviously drunk and for that matter don’t even know what they are doing… Whether or not you think your moves are hot and more importantly whether you are hot… If you’re even drunk enough to not care… All of these things go through my mind when I first get to a club and step out on the floor, or enter the main room at a party where the DJ’s playing the music loud. For once I just want to be able to go out with my girls and forget about anyone else’s opinion on me if they even happen to look in my direction. And let’s face it, do they even care? Alot of them don’t, most don’t even know me so why would they care if I was dancing like a trainwreck or a sex symbol? Not everyone is as critical as I am and that’s one of the main reasons why I seem to care so much about what others think. But for now I still feel extremely uncomfortable if there aren’t alot of people dancing, I want to work up the courage to take the plunge anyway and start dancing away.