live with no regrets

So I’m still currently struggling with this goal here. The familiar sayings ‘hindsight is 20/20’ and ‘if I only knew then what I know now’ keep popping up with regards to recent events. The idea of learning from past experiences has seems to completely escape me, especially when it comes to affairs of the heart. Somehow all rational leaves me during such times and I am then left to ponder just what the heck I was thinking. I hope that one of these days I’ll get my act together…until then I’m left thinking - what was I thinking?!

with keeping this goal on track. Recent developments have made me question some of the decisions I’ve made – one may say I may be regretting what I’ve done. I’m trying my best to find a positive perspective on the situation – although right now I’m not quite past the “what was I thinking” stage…

I need to learn not to overanalyze everything – things happen, deal with them and move on – NO regrets…right?

that I should never regret the choices I make. Instead of looking at them as regrets, I need to look at these choices as learning experiences. A close friend of mine reminded me that everything happens for a reason and I believe this. Still I can’t help but fall into the trap of thinking that I should have done something different to alter the outcome of the situation I may or may not be regretting. That said, I am determined not to regret things that have happened. What has occured shall remain part of the past, part of history. Today is a new day and open to all sorts of wonderful things. Today I shall love my life and everything and everyone in it – without regrets…