Learn to trust again, and trust wisely

These last few months have been really rocky. I have a hard time making friends with people who turn out to be decent, and I don’t always have those instincts that some girls have about falsehoods that guys put around themselves to impress a girl. But I have a really really hard time trusting any guys. I know that there are some really nice ones out there, I just don’t have a whole lot of faith. I’m not looking for a companion, I’m married. I just seem to pull in friends who want way more than friendship, so when I meet new guys, I have a really hard time getting past that barrier.

Right now, I know that I have a few people to talk to when things go wrong, or if I just need to spill my guts out, but there are still times that I feel like they will let me down. So, lately, when I feel uncomfortable talking to someone, I’ve just been praying because I know that if I can’t tell god, I can’t tell anyone. And he’s not leaving me. It’s wonderful to know that I’ll ALWAYS have someone there to help me with all of my troubles.

It seems that I don’t have the best judgement. I forgive people a lot, and usually, they bite me in the butt. Round two isn’t so great. I don’t necessarily think me forgiving people is a bad thing, but maybe I should just forgive them. As in, forgive them but I don’t have to talk to them or be around them. I don’t know… Any advice?

Someone I really cared about did something really terrible. I mean, not something that I can forgive him for. Just when I’m beginning to gain more trust in people, someone came and ruined it. Atleast I know now, before it’s too late.

I recently lost the only person whom I really trusted in. There’s no way I’m just gonna be able to start trusting in people anytime soon. I need advice if anyone has it. I know I shouldn’t let myself get so closed off from people, where I start keeping everything in. I’m just soo tired of giving all of my trust away and getting hurt .

Lately, I’ve really been let down by people more than I ever have been. I’ve let my best friend/lover know and he’s really trying to be better, but somehow, he keeps promising things that he can’t promise me, because he’s let me down on everything lately. I’ve really closed up everything to try not to get hurt, but it seems that in this process, I haven’t been able to trust anyone anymore. I’d like to find someone new, to entrust my feelings in, and also, not be foolish about it in the meantime.