live my life on my own terms, not trying to live up to the expectations of others

lets see I have a list of a few things I need to do when I turn 18.
1. come back to the U.S. and find some roomates and find a place to live.
2. Find a job so I wont be living off my small savings.
3. Quit religion
4. Start College and buy a used car to get around.
5. Take classes to get my motorcycle license.
6. Live life the way I want to.

I want to be like an aunt of mine that I admire. first of all instead of wearing something that she already had she would just go out and buy a couple new outfits. her closet was packed with clothes that she had bought. and when she had more bills to pay insteading of changing her lifestyle to fit her income she would change her income to fit her lifestyle meaning she would get another job. and I’m tired of my dad lecturing me on how evil the world is. I cant wait till I’m 18 and I can move out and do what I want. only three more years till I’m 18 and then my dad wont be able to do anything to me!