trying to forgive...
13 months ago
After leaving an abusive relationship over 16 months ago I finally realize I need to forgive my former partner. I read something very profound by Dr Phil. He said by not forgiving someone for their wrong doings we are bonding with that person and they ultimately still control us. Well this did it for me… I refuse to let my ex have any more control over me. By not forgiving I am allowing him to still hurt me.. and he had done enough of that in the relationship and after. Forgiving him doesn`t change what he did.. and he doesn`t even need to know. I am doing this for me. He will always be what he is and he has to live with it .. not me. I am moving on…
