Be a great husband

I enjoy giving Mrs BE a massage & the intimacy of being in love!

The right relaxing music, the aroma of the lavender infusion, the right temperature…

Gave Mrs BE a wonderful massage, with the full works – relaxing music, essential oils & a long massage session – she enjoyed it & I felt great making her feel great :-)

My wife is with her mother, supporting her at this difficult time. I’m looking after the house & kids.

I got the funeral notice in the paper & all the names spelt correctly! I sent a bouquet to my mother-in-law from all of us (which made her cry – but in a good way).

I asked my wife to choose a recipe from Jamie’s book that I got given for Xmas. She chose Chicken Tikka Masala.

It was very tasty.

It also gave me a better appreciation of the work that goes into cooking a meal.

Everyday I feel more in love with my wife. I came across a quote that said if the grass looked greener on the other side of the fence, you’re probably not taking good enough care of your own grass.

This struck a chord with me. I make sure my wife knows I love her with my words & actions.

I got home early & cooked dinner.

Chicken breast on pasta with salad.

It was really good & the family loved it :-)

I helped out more than ususal after realising I’ve been taking my wife for granted lately.

Made dinner (ok, bought it), bought flowers (freesias), & took better care of her.

I just realised that it’s mothers day on Sunday, so I cancelled my golf booking so I can spoil my wife.

Being a solo dad for a few days was rewarding how we pulled together to support my mother-in-law & her husband who is dealing with a brain tumour.

It was tougher than I expected, holding down a full time job & being there for the kids who still need time, love & attention.

Now my wife is back it almost seems ‘normal’.

Spending 10 days together was nice as we haven’t spent that long away from the kids before.

This is us dressed up for a theme wedding dinner which was a lot of fun with Bollywood style.