BE MORE SELF CENTERED AND SELFISH!!!

One might say that I completed this goal. I am seeing the importance of putting my needs ahead of others. I am so much more mentally healthy than I was a year ago. I am always going to be a people pleaser- that is inbred in me! But I am more secure about myself. Maybe it was a good thing that FORMER friends screwed me over. They are no longer in my life and I have more energy to concentrate on me. Just becuz I am more selfish doesn’t mean I am less nice and less considerate I just am more considerate of myself. I’m keeping this goal as a reminder to myself that I have to be true and kind to myself before I can trully give to others.

yes this my goal!! Unfortunately, I am a girl who always puts the needs of others before myself!! I rarely feel appreciated and often feel used. Ask me how high I will jump for ya!! I think I have set records in jumping for others. I am the friend that you take for granted. I am fat and unhappy. I believe that I really need to focus on MY needs this year and for years to come!! Hell, I frankly deserve to be self centered and selfish- I have earned the right!!!!