become more talkative

few years ago i wrote here.one thing i meet now is there’s not much chance for me to practice this as i study at a college where u only need to get professional qualification so communication wasnt that important anyway.i have a meeting with some of my old classmates and i found out that they always have a topic to talk to !!and i dont :(

i am thinking about this,hre’s my sugs:
1.look and mirror and talk,look your expression,everything.
2.record your conversation.try to improve or ask ppl to listen to it.
3.imitiate those who talk very well or at least norm.
4.do an question,such as how do you do? and express yourself at the best way,such as
Q:How are you?
A;I am fine/oh u never know i have such a ….....bad day….......

Do a lot of these

5.read those things u normally dont interested at.

6.try to mix in,even at first dont fix,do a review on it on every conversation.record,improve them,try to noted down the topics they relate on

7.comfirmation-i am not such trusting these,but i have such low confidence(yes confidence is a factor),that i have to use it.

8.capture ppl way they talk,include expression,feeling etc.
Comments:I dont talk alot at my child hood ,but i desperately need change,for i am going to be a professional …gee….i am ok when doing proffesional talk but lousy at personal…I think nowadays ppl overdo the talkative thing.if ur not u will not survive….......nvr mind…...

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I am usually shy/cannot find a similar topic to others.it’s like an embargo when i talk to peopl.i cant find similar topics to theirs and so they dont either