Be happy without being in love.

I’m sick of going from one relationship to the next without ever knowing who I really am. I have spent the last year being single yet obsessed with a guy who never really cared. It was horrendous for my self confidence. Yet I realise that actually all the men I have dated have never really appreciated me and never really attempted to get to know me. And I think that was because I did not really know myself, I let them walk all over me. Do not make that mistake. Its much better to take some time to find out who you really are than to have it dictated to you by some loser who tries to mold you into his version of the ‘perfect woman’. It really is not worth it.Be proud to take some ‘you’time, to find yourself and realise that you are good enough just the way you are, and you do not need a man to make you feel good.