Ugh, I tried adjusting myself to the idea of having kids and for the life of me cannot stomach it. I’ve wanted to adopt since I was 22/23, and it isn’t something I want to give up-I feel too strongly about it. Yes I know, waffle-waffle, flip-flop, but that’s life I suppose. Natural family planning is a great tool all women should understand, but for my busy life and circumstances, it just doesn’t fit.
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Okay, so now sadly I can’t adopt….No, I didn’t do anything illegal, but it’s rather the course of action I plan to take with my career. I don’t think many adoption agencies will look favorably upon it. So now I have to have my own kids. Trust me, adjusting myself to that idea wasn’t easy. It was either that or pass up a good opportunity to have a successful business. If you want to know more you can message me about it….but this goal is now re-opened.
I’ve quit BC starting today (day of my pill induced period). Hopefully all goes okay.
Seeing as how I don’t want to physically have children and would much rather adopt, I think I would be better off with a tubal ligation vs. FAM. So I’m leaving this goal in favor of something that suits me more. Good luck to everyone else!
The more I think about it, the more I would rather adopt than have my own children. But I’m sticking with this goal because I hate BC and would much rather have natural periods. Plus, I hate the whole pharmaceutical industry. I forgot to take my BBT today, (bad day) but I’ll remember tomorrow.
These are the sites I’m using:
http://www.yourdays.com
http://www.mymonthlycycles.com
http://www.fertilityfriend.com
The first one I’m using to see when I’m most likely to have a boy and the other two are helping me track my fertility. I purchased a thermometer a few days ago and started taking my temps. Its a really interesting process…I still need to read the book though.
I purchased a BBT thermometer and took my temp first thing this morning. I am also going to go off pills and use a non-hormonal method for BC because the pills are making me sick and I’m tired of making my body “think” that I’m pregnant when I’m really not.
I want to know my most fertile days and when I am most likely to conceive a boy….also, I want to keep better track of my periods and symptoms. I started 7/30 providing information for 7/29 and 7/30, I want to keep doing this on a daily basis. I am also using Your Days to find out when I am most likely to have a boy.
Becky has gotten 5 cheers on this goal.
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