pent-up aggression
2 years ago
I must not be asking for what I want, or am pessimistic that I will ever get it, or maybe hung up on my need to get it. All I know is I feel withdrawn and angry, especially at those closest to me. Any ideas?
For example, if my housemate won’t keep the place neat, and our “friends” make fun of me for not being a better influence on him, and this has been going on for two years, and he feels attacked when I bring it up and he is too “busy” to commit to cleaning up (even 10 minutes a day)... should I not assume he doesn’t care about my feelings, won’t do anything about it and deserves my cold shoulder?? He says he is trying, but he also says I should just ignore how the friends make me feel.
