Miss_Bee in Blackburn is doing 29 things including…

be more confident

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Miss_Bee has written 23 entries about this goal

The past month.. 8 months ago

...I feel like my confidence has grown a big amount…ever since passing my driving test. I have pushed myself to talk to people in certain situations where I’d normally struggle and not be able to talk to them and I do always feel better once I’ve done it.
I can go one day with being 10 times more confident than normal to another day taking a step back so there is no constant with me and my confidence but I do feel maybe 10% more confident now than I was a month ago.
I have a long way to go but each slight improvement is all I can hope and wish for and it’s amazing when I do things I normally struggle with. I just hope to keep it up!



I don't think it's grown....(!) 20 months ago

I am finding myself more and more unconfident in social or even everyday situations and I know I need to push myself a little more to build my confidence up but it’s like I’ve got into the habit of being unconfident.
Today in one place I felt a little uncofident but at the same time I didn’t feel too unconfident but when we got to the checkout to pay for things we bought in one place I felt totally uneasy and lacking in confidence. I kinda kept my head down and played with my necklace because I just felt so uneasy.
Then again when I was at a supermarket checkout I felt so unconfident that I kept my head down and did the packing and then leaving the supermarket I sent my dad into the McDonalds to get something to eat when I could and should of gone in with him but I’d find that so hard and I don’t know why.
I need to get my confidence back up higher or at least back to the level I’d gotten it to even though I was a long way off being as confident as I should be I know I was in a much confident place than I am now.
I need to do more things for myself and stop getting my dad to do them. If I want a drink from the shop I should make myself go and if I don’t push myself then I should do without that drink. I should make that a rule because I will get sick of not having whatever it is I’m sending my dad to get me that I will eventually get out and get it myself even though it will be hard it will do me the world of good in the end.
It’s OK to get my dad to pick up things if he’s out and about but I should push myself more and if I am out with him and want something I should stop sending him and do it myself. I know that will probably sound easy to a lot of people because it’s such a normal everyday task but I seem to find it so hard so I need to push myself a little more because it will help me in the long run.



Feeling a little more confident at the moment which is a great feeling... 2 years ago

everything is going well for me at the moment which is helping heaps with my confidence.
I am finding I am more confident in myself when out and about. I am still not confident as I should but I feel more confident with daily things like going out and about and going to the shop etc. It’s a great feeling!!
When things are going great for me like these last few weeks with passing my theory test and an exam it’s a great boost for me and helps me a great deal with my confidence.
It is on the up and I can’t wait to be the confident person that I should be.



On the increase 3 years ago

For sure, it’s better than it has been for the longest time. I just hope it grows more and more. Will take time but I hope I get there in the end!!



my confidence is a little higher... 3 years ago

after the weekend which is good as every little helps. Still a long way off though but at least I am feeling more confident that normal which is good :o)



It is a lot higher 3 years ago

Not loads higher but in the past week or two my confidence really has increased and it is about time too. It still isn’t anywhere near where it should be but it is a lot higher and it makes me a lot happier too which is great :o)
I think with being happy too that helps a lot with my confidence and feeling a lot more confident makes me happy too so it is a good feeling all around.
It will take me a lot of time to get even half as confident as I should be but I have taken a big step in the right direction and I am happy with things at the moment :o)



it is too low 3 years ago

I need to work on it but don’t get much chance to, I want it to be a lot higher as I have no confidence at all and it sucks!!



Need to work on this 3 years ago

I have ideas on it, talk to more people I don’t know. Join in more conversations instead of avoiding them or saying nothing. It is so low and I need to get it up as online I come across so confident but in person I’m not at all so I am going to work on it and get it a lot better than it is in time for my birthday :O)



super lacking 3 years ago

I need to get working on this issue the most I think. I think it is important right now that I start working on improving my confidence as it isn’t very good at all :O(



Isn't too good at the moment 3 years ago

it is getting worse but I am determined to not let my confidence get as low as it once was!!



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