He finally went through with it. He almost didn’t show up for his appointment. It is way easier on men. He was swollen and sore for a couple of weeks but mobile by the next day. His doc said that he had to “exhaust the pipes” so to speak at least three times a week afterwards for three weeks, so there was even a perk for him. We still need to use condoms for a couple months more, but after that it will be nice to have one less worry.
warriormama has written 2 entries about this goal
Tired of condoms and so is my husband. Other methods aren’t a good fit for my needs. I was given an appointment last August and forgot about it. So, now it is back on the front burner. My last child was a surprise. Very welcome, very loved, just stressful in terms of timing. I wanted another child and felt complete after her birth. So, no more. I’m too old for this.