start dating again

wow.. funny how some things turn out. a friend of mine since February never that i never really said much to, until one day i got the nerve to say something. so i did. It took her by surprise, and we talked and at the end of that day she said she would think about it. i thought that meant a no. only to find out 3 weeks later to have her call me up out of the blue and say she wanted to talk, that being 2 weeks ago now, today we made it official that we are dating. and for the reason i asked her… she was the one of the sweetest women i ever met that was single. now that i have gotten to know her a bit more… she really is the sweetest most caring easy going woman i have ever been with.. and its one of the most comforting feelings i have had in a long time :)

Met a girl, taking her out to pool and bowling tonight. See if its just as friends or a real date… I made it real casual as I don’t need to rush into anything. If it goes somewhere that’s cool, if not that’s cool too.

Update, one week later: yup, just friends.

i know im ready and im over my last… after meeting a few people.. even though getting their number and clearly having an opportunity.. i keep meeting someone more interesting than the last.. then meeting someone that just wowed me .. someone you never thought you could ever meet… and then slowly see it seem to be just friends.. after that i just have no drive to want to date right now… i think i need to stop trying .. i didnt think i tryied that hard… but right now i just want to take it easy .. if something happens it happens if not .. owell …

i think in another week or so. i should be clear headed enough to not worry about my previous relationship being in my head. even im kinda surprised to see how fast Ive worked through that. guess it was a sign it was dead for a while..

so ill check back in a week. no need to rush it. good luck to the rest of you!