Be in a healthy relationship

i guess what made it better is that we started to talk a bit more deeply and share what we want and what we expect. im getting better at communication. to make sure we stay on the same page is key, and not to get upset when we don’t understand each other.

i dont know how to do this. i must be picking the wrong people or something…. everything seems to be a challenge. just having a loving calm day seems to be a battle…

its new, theres communication and a spark. we came of to a bit of a rough start. bit of a culture shock… i hope things don’t get to tough….

i have learned that i need to stand up for myself if something bugs me. even if it leads to a fight i need to say something and not bottle it up. i did this in 2 relationships now and its just so hard for me… my next relationship im going to say this early on.. i hope they can help me a bit to say and speak how i feel. i don’t want to be a bottle anymore

Somehow I just can’t seem to stay in this… Even though I was so close… It wasn’t all my fault, I understand that.. To all those that have made this a goal and completed it. I want to congratulate you.
If I can save what I had, ill try doubly hard. But it takes 2. Along with restarting this goal, I think I need to make a goal to have better communication. Seems I’m too quiet and don’t bring things up :/

Good luck to all of you!!

well im sorry if i sounded negative in my last post..
but i guess its over.. couldn’t say i didnt see it coming..
i haven’t heard from her in 3 days. after talking to her everyday for a month and a half..
i did everything i possibly could have done to make it a magical time…
never had so much fun on a dates before. never was hard or confusing. just strait forward.
but .. i never felt the magic back.. just felt like a good friend… im gonna bite the bullet and say its over… she seemed interested… but hard to follow..
i only called once a day as not to be clingy or overpowering.. but still nothing…
well i felt i did all the right things..
and thats all i can do.
i was totally confident with everything i did.. (which is a rarity) so, its not all bad.. just proved to myself that my instinct was right all along. not matter what she said and did.
its not all bad, it was a another learning experience. as with a lot of things in life :)

and you never know.. maybe she will call back in a few days and tell the story of what happend…

well i am in a brand new relationship. and i made sure once it went from dating to a boyfriend girlfriend thing.. that some things need to be said. and i made this a comfortable chat not as blunt as it seems in this lil blog post. things like communication, affection, trust, honesty. if you cant do these things along with me.. then this isn’t going to work… and lets just stop it right here and be good friends. and she agreed… but… i don’t think she is the affectionate type at all… and i talked to her about it… and she said that isn’t something she has ever been in … she said she wants to just take it slow.. and thats totally fine… but the way she said it and how her body language suggests… something isn’t right here .. and i don’t like it either.. i don’t ever want to say or think negative things anymore… but i don’t see this going anywhere but ending me up in disappointment…i dont think she is into me… i feel im being used somehow… i know im not sounding good about this but im still being as optimistic as i possibly can…