Joshmeister is helping me out a lot with this one. Basically by making me think about what I actually want, rather than just letting me say yes instinctively. To anyone. Including him.
It’s really making me think about how I feel rather than just letting certain things go, because even little things can build up. I’m still a pretty big pushover, but not QUITE as much, so that’s good.
I am having a teensy bit of difficulty identifying what is being a pushover and distinguishing it from what is just being easy going.
I guess it comes down to how it makes you feel. If it honestly doesn’t bother you, then you’re just being easy going, but if it bothers you and you don’t say anything, then you’re a pushover.
That’s right, isn’t it?
By that criteria I’ve been a lot less of a pushover lately. I’ve been more assertive, more confident in my own choices and more comfortable in expressing my opinion and doing what I want.
Pretty great, really. = )
redbandita wants to do first things first
grow taller
drink more water
become fluent in french
try
create my own tattoo
spontaneously combust
try new foods
learn capoeira
remember birthdays on time
try Marmite
take cooking classes
meet warren buffet
Antti wants to get a cat
be more feminine
hang glide
love my body
Watch Coyote Ugly the movie
go to New York City
Fly a plane
sloanpeterson1 wants to inspire and be inspired
see a whale in the wild
read the deathly hallows
