...of how you act and what makes you act in that way. Try the same with other party.
zebran has written 2 entries about this goal
...I should stop saying things in a blatant and painful way. I should at least pretend I follow their advice they give without having “the whole picture” in mind, because they have a need their advice is being taken… I should accept that they often say truth and I should learn to control my reactions… I should… After all – they are great family and they deserve that.