I signed up to counselling and had my first session this week. This is my first step towards building my resilience and taking control. Soon I’ll be reinforcing what I think and backing myself up rather than putting up with people who make me feel small.
zuzesoo has written 2 entries about this goal
I am so sick of blindly agreeing to other people and reserving my opinion when I have just as much right to voice it as anyone else. The most annoying thing is that when anyone is rude to me I just kill them with kindness…hang on a minute shouldn’t we be on a level playing field? Also I seem to have no middle ground, either I’m really laid back and seemingly not bothered or I’m really rageful! I need to be able to get my point of view across in a calm controlled manner, where people won’t question me or undermine me and see that what I am saying makes sense.
I guess it’s not something that will happen over night but it is something I would love to work on, and try to concentrate on the times that I do speak up rather than focusing on when I fail.
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