i needa scream, so incredibly badly. there is one hell of alot of frustration here right now. the sort of frustration that is not healthy and come from the miscommunication of people who dont say how they feel. they say half sentences, tell you half truths, then reserve the right ot get shitty when things dont work out. for gods sake im not a freakin mind reader.
i cant write about this now.
i needa cool off.
im trying to stay motivated to actually stay friends with MJ. problem is, its not me who is fucking up right now. if she said something and stood by that emotion maybe i would know how to act. you cantg keep changing your mind hun. i cant keep up.
28days's Life List
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1. kiss in the rain
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2. achieve 43 goals
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3. put 3 months into getting FIT
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4. practice a random act of kindness at least once a week
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5. acknowledge i have learnt something from everyone i know
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6. make 43 REAL friends on 43 Things (preferably from 43 different countries/or countries and States)
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7. give KFC the Bird
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8. Save money, not waste money!
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9. make a short film
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10. Go sky diving
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11. Read more
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12. Go Paintballing
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13. have a great autumn to follow the summer
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14. have a totally different life in a year!
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15. learn french
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16. observe, listen, learn
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17. stay motivated
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18. knit a really long scarf
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19. go to Pride
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20. get my feet behind my head
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21. learn violin
1 entry . 19 cheers370 people -
22. swim to Rottnest
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23. Volunteer
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24. Do a detox diet
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25. Create my family Tree
1 entry . 11 cheers115 people -
26. See the Mona Lisa
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27. Run a marathon
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28. Be vegan for a month
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29. Swim with a Dolphin
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30. Learn Moonlight Sonata on Piano
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31. Go rock climbing
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32. make love by candle light
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33. learn german fluently
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34. return to germany next year
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35. write a song
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36. receive accupuncture
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37. help those that need help
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How I did it: i dont think you can do this in one sitting. 100 things that truly made you happy. it has to have more meaning than that... or maybe im just slow at finding what makes me happy. but just reading my list makes me feel better. and gives me motivation to get off my ass and do something that makes you that little bit more cheerful on a down day. Read how I did it…
i have already given up. i cant do it. i physically cannot do it. i do not have the hours for me to work, sleep, do music practice and travel between the three. the day does not have enough time. without including eating, relaxing, exercise and chilling with mates. nope. looks like the musical side of me shall well… suffer in silence for a wee while. this saddens me. but hopefully this is only short term.
my best friend’s boy friend is blake. he is an awesome guy. he has gotten me out of some sticky situations, no questions asked. lately emily had confided in me that blake had lost ALOT of weight and he wouldnt talk about it.
i rang blake and asked if he had work and asked if he would mind giving me alift home as i was also in the city. he said for sure and we arranged where we would meet.
then, i went to woolworths. i knew why blake wasnt eating.
he has moved out of home and hates asking his parents for anything (he feels like he is a hassle/burden to them). i had heard through the grape vine that he had gotten into some trouble involving money as his housemate crashed his car and wouldnt pay up. so i got to woolworths and bought BULK food. i bought meat, vegies, rice, pasta, sauces for the pasta, fruit, milk, bread, soup, eggs and (as a treat) some conniseur cookies and cream icecream.
i then carried the darn bags of food all the way to our meeting place. as soon as he saw me he knew the stuff was for him and his face was classic. he was speechless. he kept saying thanks and that he would repay me. i told him to shut up and to consider it a merry christmas and thank you present. he gets me outta shit, i get him outta shit :D plain and simple :D
i dont think anyone should have to go without the necessities, like food. and the fact that i had the money to be able to buy him food for the next week or two without having to even think about it was something i am so appreciative of. and its made me happy everytime i think about it :)
