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I’m going out with him. Boyfriend and girlfriend.But he doesnt love me.
Its not love. Its ’ i quite like you’

This week it changes.
Seriously
When i do this goal:
confidence
Self love
And a lot of other reasons
I’m finally starting to change

Do you want a guy to be crazy about you, the way you are about him? While you can’t make someone feel a certain way, you can definitely put your best foot forward and give his feelings a chance to develop. Here are some helpful hints on how to charm a guy, while still being yourself.

Steps
Like yourself. Whether you’re goofy, silly, crazy, quirky, smart, reserved, or whatever, how can you expect a guy to like you if you don’t like yourself? You’ve got to show this person how awesome you are, but first you need to know how awesome you are. Build up your self confidence. Now, this doesn’t mean you have to be loud, boisterous, arrogant, chatty, or forward. It just means getting to a place where you’re comfortable in your own skin. You can be secure, sweet and humble all at the same time. Guys like confident, interesting girls who have their own lives. The only guys who like insecure girls are the ones who are insecure themselves. But who wants to be with a guy who wants a girl to feel bad about herself? That’s not healthy, and you deserve better.
Get his attention. He can’t fancy you if he doesn’t know you exist. If you haven’t caught his eye yet, then get him to notice you. You’ve got to walk before you run, right? Say “Hi”. Say “Good-bye”. Wave. When he reciprocates, is when you know he notices you. Introduce yourself somehow and make conversation. Take an interest in who he is-what he likes, where he’s coming from, where he wants to go-and show him who you are, too. While some guys don’t like to talk that much, it’s nearly impossible for someone to like you if he doesn’t get to know you—unless he “likes” you for all the wrong reasons.

Crack a joke. Having a good sense of humor makes everything better. That doesn’t mean you should be a giggling fool, laughing at everything that crosses your path. Express your sense of humor in your own way. Some people are witty and sarcastic, others can tell hilarious stories, and many people just do quirky things and poke fun at themselves. No matter what tickles your sense of humor, it’s much easier to like someone who you can have a good laugh with once in a while. If you don’t find something to laugh about together, then maybe you’ll discover that you don’t like him after all!
Do things together. If he loves rock-climbing, ask him if he can show you how, and make a good-faith effort to see why he’s so into it. Have an open mind. Find out what you have in common, and include him in your world. If you love a certain kind of music, ask him if he’s ever listened to a particular artist and offer to play a CD for him. Finding activities that you can enjoy together can really lay down a bond and further his appreciation of you.

Have patience. These things take time. You can’t force someone to like you, and trying to hurry things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Give him some space and don’t be obsessive. Let things progress at a natural pace, or fade out of natural causes. Eventually he’ll tell you one way or another whether or not he’s interested in reciprocating your affection. And if he’s not, don’t hang around him like a lost puppy. Sometimes you might be incompatible in ways that you don’t see, and sometimes a guy just isn’t ready for a long term relationship. Don’t take rejection too personally. It happens. Not everyone in the world is going to like you. Move on! There are other fish in the sea and if you followed the first step, you know that you’re a good catch.

THIS WILL START WHEN I PRACTISE AND IMPROVE AT GUITAR! After half term i will begin to do so.

I’ll be myself when i cana ct like i’m stoned or drunk without being so.
When i have the confidence to do what i want and not care about looking stupid
But its more than being confident
Its about integrity.
Doing the right thing
Rather than doing the easything, or whatever would make me more popular.
Noone wants to be fake, but we are all heading that direction.

Love is such a weird thing.
I cant force someone to love me.
I cant give someone a love potion and steal their heart with him.
And i would never do that because then he wouldnt raelly be mine.
I want to be comfortable around him, thats the only way i can be myself around him then he will love me for myself.
I should stop being so scared and just bloody live my life!
I love him so much.
Who knows why.
I think its the kindness.
The smiles or the looks we give each other.
His rebellious style.
yer whatever.

Goal 5- DO this
your time every day should now be spent…
PLaying guitar
Drumming
Art working
and doing GEOGRAPHY COURSEWORK
not on the computor or the phone
its a sad life

Goal 4 – Every sunday i will have a lesson, when my lessons run out i will buy a book, i WILL drum!

Seriously i need to do this!
i need to spend time every day!
because its a gcse i want an a*
i really do want to aim high

Number 2 of my 5 goals to focus in on.
Why havent i don this yet! i dont know!
But hell i need to to.
And it cant be too hard
so get on with it!

I have so many goals and cant do them all at once, so i’ve decided i will do this one at the moment, and 4 others.
Every single day, i will practise. An hour, maybe less. I will be able to tell when i’ve really improved!

1. Get and stay out of your comfort zone.
I believe that not much happens of any significance when we’re in our comfort zone. I hear people say, “But I’m concerned about security.” My response to that is simple: “Security is for cadavers.”

2. Never give up.
Almost nothing works the first time it’s attempted. Just because what you’re doing does not seem to be working, doesn’t mean it won’t work. It just means that it might not work the way you’re doing it. If it was easy, everyone would be doing it, and you wouldn’t have an opportunity.

3. When you’re ready to quit, you’re closer than you think.
There’s an old Chinese saying that I just love, and I believe it is so true. It goes like this: “The temptation to quit will be greatest just before you are about to succeed.”

4. With regard to whatever worries you, not only accept the worst thing that could happen, but make it a point to quantify what the worst thing could be.
Very seldom will the worst consequence be anywhere near as bad as a cloud of “undefined consequences.” My father would tell me early on, when I was struggling and losing my shirt trying to get Parsons Technology going, “Well, Robert, if it doesn’t work, they can’t eat you.”

5. Focus on what you want to have happen.
Remember that old saying, “As you think, so shall you be.”

6. Take things a day at a time.
No matter how difficult your situation is, you can get through it if you don’t look too far into the future, and focus on the present moment. You can get through anything one day at a time.

7. Always be moving forward.
Never stop investing. Never stop improving. Never stop doing something new. The moment you stop improving your organization, it starts to die. Make it your goal to be better each and every day, in some small way. Remember the Japanese concept of Kaizen. Small daily improvements eventually result in huge advantages.

8. Be quick to decide.
Remember what General George S. Patton said: “A good plan violently executed today is far and away better than a perfect plan tomorrow.”

9. Measure everything of significance.
I swear this is true. Anything that is measured and watched, improves.

10. Anything that is not managed will deteriorate.
If you want to uncover problems you don’t know about, take a few moments and look closely at the areas you haven’t examined for a while. I guarantee you problems will be there.

11. Pay attention to your competitors, but pay more attention to what you’re doing.
When you look at your competitors, remember that everything looks perfect at a distance. Even the planet Earth, if you get far enough into space, looks like a peaceful place.

12. Never let anybody push you around.
In our society, with our laws and even playing field, you have just as much right to what you’re doing as anyone else, provided that what you’re doing is legal.

13. Never expect life to be fair.
Life isn’t fair. You make your own breaks. You’ll be doing good if the only meaning fair has to you, is something that you pay when you get on a bus (i.e., fare).

14. Solve your own problems.
You’ll find that by coming up with your own solutions, you’ll develop a competitive edge. Masura Ibuka, the co-founder of SONY, said it best: “You never succeed in technology, business, or anything by following the others.” There’s also an old Asian saying that I remind myself of frequently. It goes like this: “A wise man keeps his own counsel.”

15. Don’t take yourself too seriously.
Lighten up. Often, at least half of what we accomplish is due to luck. None of us are in control as much as we like to think we are.

16. There’s always a reason to smile.
Find it. After all, you’re really lucky just to be alive. Life is short. More and more, I agree with my little brother. He always reminds me: “We’re not here for a long time, we’re here for a good time!”

After today this goal will be ticked off. But i want to REALLY tick it off and mean it.
Today it is.
Lets go through the rythm. Push Push Push, present, skate skate skate, spiral 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 leg down. push push Mow Hawk 12 JUMP skate skate skate mow hawk, hold hold round JUMP skate skate skate mowhawk cross cross cross cross hold SPIn end, skate present off

CONCERNTRATE LIKE HELL ENJOY IT be a body not a person
smile show the passion

I will practise an HOUR A DAY for this. serious. All of this week.
i will stretch jump balance and spin. Starting tomorrow.
After the comp i will then use that hour for guitar.
Not doing good.
Today i will rubbish.
But there is sort of time.
And theres always hope.

I will send myself an email with 100 things that are me, childhood memories, places, persoanlity traits, interests… then i will tick of this goal becaus ei will have defined mee!

ok by be beautiful i mean:
1. GAIN CONFIDENCE so i feel beautiful within myself even if i’m not, thats one of my other goals. once i’m happy with myself others will see the beauty.
2. dont mean the vain sort of beauty, i just mean being able to look in a mirror and see shining eyes, healthy skin and be content, rather than wanting to smash the mirror whenever i see myself.
Also i dotn want to feel jealous of others, i want to appreciaste their beauty too.
3. A good diet, good healthy food gives confidence that you are eating right, and a good body and skin.

Hmm i hope this works

i dont want to hate myself any longer

i’m letting all that go

starting from

NOW

I guess theres been progress.
:)
i talk to more people more
i smile and say hi
i dont want to die everytime i look in the mirror

but i need to :
respect myself more, then others will respect me
never ever be afraid when i want to say something, i’ll just say it anyway nd not care out looking stupid

I HAVE TO DO THIS
I’M HOURS BEHIND ALREADYI NEED TO GET A GRIPNO JOKES!
I WILL WORKWORKWORK TILL I CATCH UPAND NOT GO ON THE COMPUTOR INSTEAD!
NO DISTRACTIONS!

Ok this hasnt been working!
its too complicated to stick to
generally i will just not got on as much
not like now
i’ll do music instead:)
there will be more comments waiting everytime i come on the computor coz theres been a longer gap inbetween

one hour a day of practise (whenever i’m at home that is…)
starting soon
as soon as i sort out my homework that is!