I'm doing 13 things
Always be kinder than necessary as everyone that you will meet is fighting some sort of battle.
Amarula's Life List
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1. get a six pack
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2. wants to have complete self control
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3. Stop swearing
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4. do 100 pushups
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5. Draw up a budget and stick to it !!!
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6. Wants to be stress free, at least just for one week!!!
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7. Have an awesomely different life by this time next year
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8. Learn to cook
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9. Take time out for myself and not feel guilty about it!
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10. Make a book of quotes
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11. Practice the Four Agreements: Be impeccable with my word/ Don't take anything personally/ Don't make assumptions/ Always do my best
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12. write a book
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13. Login to 43 things more often because I like the site and because I learn so much from others experiences and goals reached
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How I did it
It made me
feel free 
How I did it: I just took every situation and looked at it like how a kid would. Kids see things in the innocent light, adukts see it in the complicated light. Think of what you would do as a kid because then you think of the simplest way to do things. Not everything you handle will be easy but it makes the weight lighter and easier to get through. Read how I did it…
It made me
happy!
How I did it: I just went with the moments.... All the moments counting up to the day and through the wedding too.I did everything and apparently more than what was expected of a bridesmaid(this according to the bride herself).I stayed calm for the bride even though I was nervous as hell to walk in those heels with the absolutely gorgeous dress that the brides mum had made for me herself. Read how I did it…
It made me
feel good
How I did it: I kept reminding myself that being diagnosed as an epileptic is not the end of the world. It is merely just a health condition and the cuases sometimes can not be recognised. Epilepsy does not happen over night. It has many causes such as getting hurt when you were a kid or it could be built up stress which causes the brain to react differently than to most normal patterns.Learn to cope and live with it because it may not necessarily be c… Read how I did it…
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Recent entries
So there’s actually been a fair enough improvement in this past 2 weeks. Nowadays I only swear when I’m joking around or when someone does something really silly on the roads while they driving.
Other than that,I am proud of myself for trying really hard at doing this and actually getting somewhere. I feel lighter and better.
I swear only when I’m really angry and sometimes in general conversation with a friend. But sometimes its not because there’s a real need to. Its casually in a conversation but as I swear, I hear myself and it doesn’t sound nice at all. Not in a joke or not when I’m angry either. So now I’ve looked for words to substitute the swear words. Its a little frustrating to contain myself sometimes because the swearing came so easily but I have to stop. Its not lady like,not professional and not nice especially to those around you. Its quite disrespectful to people around me so I have stopped thinking that it is just ok to swear because it’s not.
