I'm doing 18 things
Because then my best friend would eventually figure out the quality of my love for him after a series of hilarious misunderstandings and we’d kiss and live happily ever after.
As it is, he’s the one I call when I’m not happy, he’s the one I call when I’m happy. When he’s unhappy, I feel it. Last night we played chess and he gave me a massage and we had dinner in Chinatown and we talked about important stuff and unimportant stuff and, like always, I liked myself in his company. I know this guy so well, we’ve been friends for so long. I wish I could bring him joy by being as tender and affectionate as I feel, by letting him know how special he is to me. Really, there aren’t words. Love is love. It’s the rush of emotion when he touches me, it’s the hours we spend talking on the phone, it’s the gentleness we show one another. It’s the giggles and the pauses, the silent torment.
He does know how I feel. He’s never told me what he thinks. He’s with someone. She is beautiful and clever and successful and independent and brave. I do my best to help him make that work – because it’s what he wants. It hurts like hell, but I can’t bring myself to behave in a way that will make him unhappy. I encourage, I counsel, I quell the voices that tell me to manipulate him into seeing what he could have. It will never be up to me. Love that is dishonestly gained is false from the start, and I don’t what we might have together to ever be tainted.
Architeuthis's Life List
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1. be a fantastic veterinary nurse
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2. Become a zoologist.
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3. Get fitter
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4. Grow my hair long
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5. learn japanese
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6. own my own home
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7. fall in love with someone who loves me too
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8. Get my teeth fixed
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9. stop having dreams about urbex and do some
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10. have a house with hidden rooms and trap doors, and some kind of secret tunnel
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11. do 90 meetings in 90 days
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12. save money
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13. travel round Australia by myself in a van
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14. Send a message in a bottle
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15. learn to SCUBA dive
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16. get a secret published on 'postsecret.com'
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17. Be with the person I love
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18. Get rid of my freckles
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