ArianeK

How I did it: A lot of things changed in my life about 2 and a half years ago, not all by choice, but I used that as an opportunity to really make my life what I wanted from it.When I declared this goal, I think I was thinking of it more as a material thing, but what has made my life feel a lot more simple is just being much more selective of what is important to me.  I have become a lot more ruthless about cutting people out of my life who bring … Read how I did it…

How I did it: Counseling, and training myself to think differently, along with the support of good friends.  Thing is, not accepting it just leads to me feeling sorry for myself, or pushing myself too hard.  I finally feel like I am okay the way I am, that it doesn't make me unlovable or like less of an awesome person.  I finally feel like I don't have to worry about others' judgments or try and live up to anyone's expectations than my o… Read how I did it…

How I did it: Talking to friends, talking to a counselor, soul searching, and all that good stuff.  And I got hurt, deeply by someone very close to me (not to mention the various other people). I think the reason I couldn't let go was because I was too optimistic, like I always thought eventually the other person would come to their senses. But the thing is, not everyone IS a good person, or someone that is worth my time and energy.  Maybe th… Read how I did it…